This topic is itself a rather controversial one as many Norwegian yngre menn are noted for importing brides from other countries like Thailand,Russia and later they start to create problems in the relationships.
There are many problems faced by single lady especially from underdeveloped countries.
A proposal/marriage offer from an educated Norwegian man would sound great and this can be the vital reason why she would have willingly accepted to marry the Norwegian man.
There are many social problems which a foreign bride faces in Norway.
These imported brides are not accepted very well in communities and the below words of a Thai foreign bride gives enough evidence to clearly picture the real state of their family life:
'The first time we met we went off and he asked me to come to Norway on a holiday… (After marriage): After two months he said I wasn’t allowed to go to school. He said if I went to school he would send me back and that I had to apply for a job. I worked for long hours and when I came home late he was angry with me. That’s when I made the decision I wanted to break up. I couldn’t be with him anymore. Many Norwegian yngre menn just want to have sex and then just dump them and find a new one. It’s better not to get them. ......."
This sort of issues and hassles in Norwegian society makes many single lady in Norway hate other yngre menn in their locality.
A single yngre dame would be very much willing to share her life with a fulfilling relationship .However when marring actions of Norwegian yngre menn and their indecent behaviors force them to choose yngre menn from other countries.
Most of the marriages with foreign brides are happy but there are few cases wherein the bride is left to suffer yngre menn tally/physically.
Although steps are taken by the government to prevent such issues in family life of imported brides in Norway there are still today some yngre dame who are made to suffer the physical abuse .
A strong personality and challenging guts are crucial things and if a single woman has decided to marry a Norwegian man it might be her guts which would make her grasp a strong hold of herself in the family as well as in the society with which she must survive the rest of her life.
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